Hi guys, I have also written a letter using the same website as mentioned. I showed it to my counseler and he mentioned that I don't say I'm sorry or asking for forgiveness. The reason I didn't is because I also say in the letter that I'm not trying to change her mind, just maybe help her heart heal. It is all about her as you guys have done cause I've realized now when I have written matters before they were more about me.
I haven't decided if I'm going to send it yet, I find W still very random and not sure if I have been getting some temp checks this weekend. She wants to have a phone call (about the kids) but she rarely keeps on topic. She wanted to do it last night but I was out watching the football. Had an email from her last night that had somewhat aggressive tone the first half, then talked about the kids, and threw in something about herself in the middle. She still seem to be a mess and all over the place.
I have seen her briefly but I don't feel she looks good, a couple of other friends have commented that they don't feel she looks good either. In some ways, it helps with the detaching as I don't feel missing feeling at the moment.
All the best of you send the letter and hopefully works in your favour.
