Hi Mleigh, interesting talk with your H and thanks for sharing details. From what you post it does sound like he is in the frame of mind that you made him feel unloved and unwanted. I don't really see any introspection about his part in the demise of your M. Of course if he was feeling that way, there were things he could have done about that - raised this with you, told you what he needed etc - that he presumably didn't do. I don't really see that he is aware and facing that part.

He still sounds to have quite an immature and self-centred take on things and there doesn't seem to be much in the way of mature introspection.

I think until he accepts and understands his part, it may be difficult to really move forward - though a few light dates could be interesting to see how you both feel.

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus