EDF, that's quite some progress you're making over there. It seems your really taking the DBing to the next level. I know it's hard breaking away from just seeing your WAS on whatever regular basis you can, but it's probably a good thing that you all won't be attending the same MA class 4 nights a week. That should help with detachment for sure.
The light house story is a great inspiration, and you're right to be unsure of what vessels you wish you lure in to your stable place of light... The only vessel you should be focusing on right now is your own. Captain your own ship to the best you can, and let the sails take care of the rest.
