I feel so much better when I re-read these posts. In the words of Mick Jagger "Time is on my side." When I meditate, I get thoughts of "sit in peace" and "be still". I am still having trouble detaching. He has become very much like a turtle going into his shell for a couple of days with no contact. Maybe he's become a floppy turtle.
M 25 T 29 D 22 S 18 BD 9-11-15 H says he's ambivalent about staying in the marriage