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Personally, I believe you let your bf off the hook too early and too easily. These situations require a lot of hammering and yammering


We've been to two marriage counselors and he's in therapy now. I'm 57 years old, not married, and have no children. He has an ED problems that are not going away-- will I ever see an erect penis again before I die? I don't want to spend whatever years I have left hammering and yammering.

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the need for continual fine tuning lets WAY up. The NOPs probably don't even do this anymore.


I wonder about that...

Mrs. NOP, in one of your recent posts to Lou, you referred to y'all's "limited success." I'm curious as to what you meant by that. Many of us look to you and NOP as Emerald City-- once we get where you are, we won't have to struggle so much any more. Do y'all still struggle at all with the sex issue?