Chipping in. What you see as hope , W maybe seeing as her have still having control. And if that's the case why would she change.
The detachment thing is just that , detachment Until you detach W may still think she has control or atleast an option of you as plan B
From what I've read on this board , most of the reconciliation cars that suceed involve the LBS truly accepting that the M is over and moving forward with their own life
Let's see you from Ws view.
You have become a better father You have moved into a new home and are dealing with life You are becoming a man only a fool would leave
You don't really GAL, You don't have a new life You don't seem to have given up all hope on the M
What can you do ? Let go of the rope completely , move forward as if this is the future. W is gone and Huddy needs to get a life for him and let go of the hope / rope. If W truly understands your finished , maybe , she will feel the loss and start to re think but at that stage Huudy might not care
Just my humble opinion mate and I'm still alone so what do I know