Originally Posted By: Jb9140
I know that I've made plenty of mistakes along the way, but I truly have given it my best shot.

It only ends when you want it to end. As many told me through the recent days, the D is just a legal paper that dissolves a marriage in it's current state. Sometimes people don't work things out before the D is finalized, but that doesn't mean it's over for good. Death is the only thing that can keep two people from reconciliation of a relationship, and in my recent sitch, I just view my W's physical shell as the corpse of the W she used to be to me anyways. So who knows why I'd want to re-marry a corpse, but self-reflection, growth, and decisions based on what's best for me is the only thing I'm going on from here on out. You know what you need to do. Hang in there.


M34 W28, T7, M2
W filed D 6/7/16

...who doesn't love a lost cause?