Make staying sober a priority for you. Good job in the ways you've come.
MC will not work unless the wayward spouse is ready to do whatever it takes to reconcile the M.
Is there a visitation schedule in place? It should not be just when it's convenient for her.
Sandi- Actually I have 40 days sober, I miscounted. It has never been a huge deal for me, I could always take it or leave it and I've had years sober before - it was the lying that killed her trust in me. Yes - visitation is 7 out or 14 days every two weeks.
Wed + Thurs including overnights every week Friday - Monday morning weekends every other week Plus I have to take them to school every morning
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
