V, I think your post above is worthy of being added to the stickies. Another I will read frequently, and I feel so honored to have you post in my thread once again with such insightful information.

I met with FF#1 again yesterday. It went OK, met with a group of common friends so it wasn't one on one this time. Her life is fairly full of drama right now, but we continue to talk and make plans.

All of my closest friends in my life have been female. I don't know why, it is still my preference.

FF#2, I have spent time at her house. No interest in dating in either direction.

FF#3, isn't legally D'd yet from her second H, has a live-in BF who she is trying to end it with, and is hitting on me. I have minimized contact with her!

Being an introvert I am not comfortable in a group setting. 3-4 people is OK, but 2 is my preference. And being I prefer FF's, what do I do?