I remember thinking this when my W showed up before "going golfing" (something new she started to find an escape). She looked GOOOOD. haha, but I know that I can't think that way right now, as it could lead to pursuant behavior. She is 'hot', but I still have emotions attached to that hotness, and I'm trying not to associate anything that can tie to the 'old us'
Originally Posted By: cbtdad
My goal tonight is to sit back and let her talk and me listen Every other time we go out with couples I'm the type A and tend to dominate the conversation Tonight I will not interrupt and let her be the star that I think she can be
I'm the same way, I've been working hard to not interrupt ANYONE during conversation, practicing this at work, family, events, etc. I have severe ADHD and take medication, but still struggle with wanting to 'jump in' and dominate conversation... It's a 180 I'm working on, and it sounds like you are too. Being patient, and listening is all part of the growth process, it truly does make you a better person. I wish you luck in this goal. You got it.
