Sorry the move started in such a messy manner, but well done for getting everything done even after all the no shows and delays! I'm not sure what to say about your H's help / attitude. Like you, I'm not a mind reader, and I cannot work out the MLC brain anyway. You should be proud of your shift of behaviour though, your philosophy is what I aspire to do too. I first became more accepting of others faults/quirks as S10 was being diagnosed with ASD. It made me reevaluate my opinion of (and relationship with) my MIL and I really want to do the same with H and others around me. Still got some way to go with H though..
I hope the rest of the move and settling in goes smoothly.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
