Most MLCers will not go to counseling because they don't think there is anything wrong w/themselves. Some will go hoping that the counselor will tell them that the marriage is over and move on and to prove the point that the marriage isn't worth saving.
You could mention that the guardian attorney has inquired about it and if she doesn't react/respond, then drop it. You can't make her go. Try to pose the question in a way that she has the option to make up her mind about it. Don't try to push her into saying yes.
In my opinion, she's no where near being close to going to a counselor and actually working on her issues and delving into those dark places within her soul. But, again, that's my opinion.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
