Good job. Baby steps. You didn't act on your desire to know and instead got on with your activities.

I'd agree. If an entire day seems like it would be open to backsliding here and there, try to go an hour at a time. Give yourself a pat on the back, and keep on. Remember, if you offer info, they may believe you're only doing XYZ for the reaction rather than because you want to do it.


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.