It has nothing to do with you. I made an effort to post on my thread when I did not want to, after struggling to write a message I saw your thread and tried but could not get the wisdom to flow. I chose at that point to tell you the truth and not write a load of BS.
I love my wife but do not like her behavior. I tried everything I could for 15 months and went backwards. At this point I behave well but am not over being hurt. For that reason I have no profound insight. That well has run dry, hopefully it is not a permanent condition. Be well
