Hi G , I'm sorry mate but your still at square one It seems your unable to do the work even when you know it has to be done
I'm going to be honest with you , you're W seems to be playing you and your happily going along with it
Nothing has changed in your W , and why would it ? She gets everything she wants from you and does whatever she wants.
So the two of you decided to get a dog ? When did you decide ? , was it your idea ? And you had to convince W ? I doubt it
Your fears re W are completely wrong in a healthy M but your not in a M anymore , you just won't accept it As you are now W could find a man she respects , someone she can't walk over and then what G, will you still follow your path and ignore all the advice you've got ?
I'm at a loss at what to type mare Your clearly unhappy so as you say , you have choices. Continue on as you are and keep those fingers crossed that something will change or do something to make those changes
G, I can assure you that I loved my W as much if not more than you love yours . I was devastated on BD and suffered for 6 months until she left and then suffered for another year but I'm getting over the pain now and I know I will be happy again one day with or without her
No one will control my happiness to that extent
Your living in constant fear and pain G and this will continue until you realise that W is gone , she is not married anymore and she will act accordingly
