Quote: And I'm NOT talking about an LD/ND spouse who has an "epiphany" and realizes what their issues have been and then decides to MUTUALLY work on it, I'm talking about when only the HD partner initiates the journey and it results in both of them working at it, together.
Well, someone has to initiate the journey.
Why can't it be the HD partner who does it and it results in an epiphany for the LD partner and a mutual desire to work on the M?