Update for the group. I haven't been on in a couple of weeks, but feel like my W if coming out of the fog a little bit. She has explained to me that she knows that she needs to break of the relationship with the OM, but is struggling with how to handle it. He's a co-worker (although they really just pass each other occaissionally at work) I'm not sure if I can trully believe her, but she has significantly cut back on her texting with him and has not gone out to see him in the past couple of weeks.
I'm hopeful that we're getting closer to piecing, but know there's a ways to go before the OM is out of her life and I still question wheter she'll ever be able to cut off contact with him.
I'll try to come back and provide updates as we work on figuring this out.
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)