I've always been so passive in our M and never really pulled my W up on her indiscretions but I see I can't do that anymore. I have to be a rock for my kids and have to have some self respect.
2 weeks ago when I had my D5 my W packed 2 pairs of shorts which were for 3-4 year olds and I didn't say a word because I didn't want to rock the boat. From here on out if she says or does something I don't agree with I must let her know.