How about success stories for HD guys who just don't "get it"? Nope, Didn't think so.
Cemar, it is all about changing yourself. You change yourself for the better, and she'll be forced to change. What have you done so far to improve the situation at home? I know you've been asked this many times, yet I am not aware of a single time where you have answered it. I really get the feeling you are here just looking for sympathy and someone to gripe to, not to figure out how to make the situation better for yourself. Nearly everyone on this board has given you good advice at some point, yet you show no evidence of taking any of it to heart. There is no magic portion to make her desire you. You need to make yourself desirable to her before that happens, which means that YOU have to change, not her.
