Thanks again Sandhi and Vanilla.

I feel i am in a weird position that my W is choosing to stay but not choosing me. If that makes sense.

I think i have brought it up a few time that she is trying to act wifey. Like we spend most of our non-working time together, family dinners the whole works. We have been having dinner with her parents and family alot more too, like daily the past week.

Her contact with OM has dramatically decreased and she doesnt linger at office anymore. Im just waiting for her last day at work.

My connundrum is i am still acting husbandy too. I havent detach in the way of actions to my W.

Im just wondering if i need to pull back, be more mysterious, GAL by myself more or just continue doing what im doing. To be honest i like being with my son as much as i can and wherever he goes she will go.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.