My wife walked out 2

[Coconut]

1.This is for you and CBT both I reckon.

2. Oh, and it's working.

3. She asked all about the Meetup I went to (hard to lie to someone's face when they ask you 3 times where you're going, so she knew), how many people, if I'm going to another, etc

1. Lol, CBT is my doppleganger, one and the same, if you write to one it will resonate with the other.

2. It's only working if your getting the joy out of it, it's not for her, and if you think about how she will react, then your doing it for her and it's not working.

3. Don't lie, it's not about deceit, it's just about doing you, and she doesn't get to share you. You can tell her as much or as little as you want, she walked away from the priveledge of knowing everything, now it's just about what you are comfortable letting her know. You should feel like your neighbor is asking you questions, how much do u want to tell them?


And about the "pool time", are you doing it for you, or are you doing it because she's there? I know that you do pool time with just S, but if your sticking around just because she's there, stop sticking around. Go find something else to do, tell her you got plans when she shows up for pool time, tell her to have a good time with S and leave.