Other thoughts:

Your DB coach will guide you.

Stay out of the way as much as possible,let WH and reality meet.

Don't expose and say you are not going to lie either, my view.

WH is an adult, big boy pants, he can make his own way from the airport. Being a target of his anger whilst you are driving might not be safe.

I am not going to encourage you to stay in an R which is damaging for you and your children, give him time and space.

WH and OW are unlikely over and he blames you.

I shall look in on you in your tough week next week, keep posting.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW