Very well stated and thought out Lady V.

This 2c is priceless indeed.

OFP, I challenge you to marinate on these thoughts Vanilla has provided you and all the read your thread.

Wise words to all that are hurting from a D.

Stats show 50% divorce first time
65% divorce second time.

Maybe if more heeded this advice, the second time around, would have a higher success rate in staying married than the first.
IMHO

Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine