I have been having a rest from this forum while I differentiate and make some risky disclosures but I had to post this quick message today because dear W is making me feel absolutely fantastic. I don't know what she is doing but what ever it is I have completely full love tanks! She is just being so nice to everyone. Over the last week or so I have been putting her under some pressure by disclosing that I feel we should be aiming to build a Passionate Marriage. She has complained of the pressure but I suggested that the pressure was all hers and that she should think of ways of dispersing it and recognising it for what it actually is ie. love. I also told her I believe that we are now old enough to grow up and start working on our future happiness. I think she might be listening at last. Of course I might be wrong and by tonight we could be deep in the gridlock again but you never know, it might be the turning point so I feel it is worthy of an entry in the Super Success Stories thread! All the best to everyone, SD