Ok just found out that my ex is going to be at my kids graduation party tomorrow. Their mom is putting on a big outside party for both my kids. (so this is my first ex-wife from 10 years ago. no big deal there. It's my kid's mom and wounds are long healed)
But I was married for 2 years and have been divorced for 7 months from ex #2 And if you have read on here I have missed her and did not want to divorce her. And I have changed many things. I have longed to run into her....by chance..I'm not sure of her situation..is she seeing someone etc.............. So here it comes..I will be running into her..not so much by chance..now I'm nervous........
Advice.....I mean I would do anything to be back together with her..I guess I just shouldn't show that side of me tomorrow..the side that misses her.
Hi. From your post it seems you know what to do , be confident , happy and relaxed. Treat her as you would a good neighbour at this function and don't hang about trying to engage her
Agree with rd500. You are your own man now, Be that. If that attracts her then she will let you know.
A pursuing, begging, weak version of you for sure wont attract her.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
