Agree with rd500. You are your own man now, Be that. If that attracts her then she will let you know.

A pursuing, begging, weak version of you for sure wont attract her.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.