As I mentioned in another thread. WW took S to the lake yesterday. I picked him up from camp. Red face, but he was outside a lot today so I thought ok no big deal. Then I get home and take his shirt off. His back looks like he was outside for 6 hours without sunblock. I told WW this was unacceptable, she needs to get some decent sunblock and put a bunch on him. Especially when he's out during the worst times of day for sun. She says she's sorry and will get sunblock. I put aloe on him tonight.
That was bad and out of character. Then, she forgets to call him to say goodnight again. About 20 minutes after he falls asleep, I text her and say "S was asking about you before he went down." She said sorry, I fell asleep. She answered my text right away. I then told her his back looked as red as the teddy bear he loves. She said I already told you I feel bad, I'm going back to sleep I'm exhausted.
WW very out of character. If she IS sleeping as much as she says she is, it's a sign of depression. Cadet mentioned this when I first posted, but I put it in the back of my mind when I found out she was cheating. If she's lying, then she's ignoring her son and being a complete jerk.
I don't know which I'd prefer. Both are terrible. At least if it were depression, it would be temporary and could be worked on. I guess....
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
