Thanks Sandhi. The thought is both scary and enlightening. While there is hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel, the tunnel itself is flooded and full of pitfalls.

I hope i have the strength to see it through. May i ask what your H did at that point? How did he have the patience and strength to endure the wait?

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.