The evidence are msgs saw from H to male friend about his feelings and being involved in group events together. He would be upset I came across but was not intentional. As someone put it H in lala land.
BD in my mind would be H saying he wants D. But see what you are saying and about EA in general. H doing last minute things which he knows bothers me. He prob is expecting me to break.
I have almost broken down saying how awful this has been since I am drained but somehow refrained from that.
