Great just who I wanted to chime in .. Sandi2!!!!
I would like to give this a shot ... And I know each sitch is different but any eye opening advice I how to get the respect back? ... I exaggerate when I say my balls are hers...but do agree their is a level of I wouldn't say loss of respect but maybe the level of respect... If that makes sense. Throw in a 40th BD a death of close friend load of two demanding kids and the recipe changes a little. She often talks of feelings of being overwhelmed...am I alighting rod for all that is wrong?

Is there any path to R?


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016