Cadet is so right about the inside of his brain being like a hurricane with stuff thrown everywhere! I've just 'enjoyed' a spewing session from my H and this is exactly how I'd describe his thoughts and ramblings! After 7 months my WAH has sat still looking as angry, still with his head in his hands because he has no idea which way to turn and still, of course, blaming everything on me.
Having said all of that thought, I know exactly how you feel when you wish you knew what your H is thinking. Or more to the point, I wish HE knew what he was thinking so he could make a decision and put an end to all this!
