Sandis post was dead on as always!!
My first time here I had a WW. This time I have WAW. I can see the difference clearly.
Listen to Sandi always
I agree with Cnut and Betterm. You need to go back and look at all the advice you have been given. Use it. Absorb it. Become the Kyle2.0 and the rest will play itself out


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it