I know I need to focus on me and turn myself into Kyle 2.0 but what am I doing with my W? Do I now pull back and almost act indifferent when I'm in her company (picking up and dropping off the kids), do I stop doing anything which may facilitate her WW lifestyle?
Kyle, instead of looking for people to answer your question again, go back to the beginning of your thread and read the advice you've already gotten. Your stuck buddy, and you need to start taking steps forward.
This... the people on these forums are great people who want to help. but there is no magic fairy dust that we can sprinkle on a sitch to make our WAS's change their mind. The point is to GATHER KNOWLEDGE, then think, then APPLY KNOWLEDGE to your sitch, create action plan (that does NOT include your W, nothing about her at all), and execute that action plan.
It's a simple thing, that every single one of us struggled with when we started here. Do the homework, KyleR. You'll understand more when you quit posting every last emotion/thought/fear you have, and start equipping yourself with the tools you need to get 'unstuck'.
