Thank you Sandi.

I'm not going to lie but your first post knocked me for 6, I read it and felt like I had been ambushed. I thought I would give myself some time to digest it before coming back with a response.

I can see now that my W is showing WW characteristics and it does fit the bill on many levels. I know I need to focus on me and turn myself into Kyle 2.0 but what am I doing with my W? Do I now pull back and almost act indifferent when I'm in her company (picking up and dropping off the kids), do I stop doing anything which may facilitate her WW lifestyle?