Thanks for the clarity it is needed badly. She says resentment ha built up to a point to which she cannot see herself recovering.. BUT there is always wording (reading too much into it know but ...) to leave a door open - a crack but open nonetheless. Earlier I pushed for a choice... Work on m or file for divorce. She backed down saying divorce sounded permanent.... Wtf? We still live in same house but time together is stressful... Trying to avoid someone in a 3br house is almost impossible.
I have seen a decay in her decisions , almost like she is giving herself permission to behave badly... Hey you earned it suffering all that time ...😂
So are the dr and db techniques going to work? I know I am going to try.. Slowly taking my balls back... If for no other reason but to have to give to the next woman😄


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016