That's fantastic Dave! Sounds good to me .

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This was the first time in years that I manually took her to O. It's much harder than oral for some reason and took much longer



Sometimes the more direct the clitoral stimulation the longer it takes to orgasm because you can sort of jump right over orgasm into pain and then you sort of have to mentally numb yourself out to get back into orgasm mode but then when you do come it can be really intense. Does that make sense?

I don't know if this is common knowledge but the way you can tell orgasm is near when you are stimulating a woman is that her clitoris will retreat back under the hood and into her body for a second. If you keep up steady stimulation when this happens she's bound to come, if you stop you may have to start again from "scratch".

A new technique I just read about and tried out a bit on myself seems to really work. You spell out the letters STOIT repeatedly on the lubricated clitoris to make her crazy. When you want her to come just keep repeating the I. I was wondering if it might be effective as foreplay on the head of the penis.

I was feeling like a Super Success Story just yesterday but for some reason today I am filled with reptilian rage. I think I've spent so many years being sad and depressed about this problem, I may have to spend a little while being just plain pissed off.

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver