Let it all out! Your IC has given you good advice. Each change will have an emotional impact on you and you will get through it my friend. In my eyes there will always be hope for W and I unless she is crazy enough to marry someone else!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...