Still here and need support

[RSG]

I can see this coming up with my son soon. He's 3+ but with a speech delay, so he can't have conversations yet. It's coming though, very quickly. It's scary as hell for me, and all she can say is "tell him Mommy and Daddy love him very much." Sure, one of us just didn't love him enough to give him his family.

My WW's family are enablers. Anything she says is golden. Want to be happy (in the moment)? Sure, go ahead and leave. S will be fine, just be happy. And poof, gone. Without a second thought. It's like they only want to be parents when it's convenient. Their irrationality rules.

I don't know what to tell you other than to show that kid as much love as you can. All the time.

Good luck to you and your D!!!