had a great afternoon yesterday with d7 after being with WAW for 2 nights. we had an early dinner out and then a movie. took her shopping for some things she needed at my house. Today WAW wanted to talk about a temporary parenting plan. She was very abrasive and antagonistic. I slipped a bit by telling WAW that I care for her and keeping the family together. She snapped back saying what a great way to show it...huh? she is the one who has walked away and lacks commitment. She tells me I'm making her out to be the bad person with d7 because I told her that d7 does not want to be away from us for a 7/7 plan. I have suggested the plan by SH but WAW says it won't work for her. However, we are going to at least try it for a few weeks this summer. I guess the WAW says the things she does in order to try and justify her actions. Seems like she is saying I made her walk away. I admitted to my faults in the R and told WAW I am working on myself to be a better person and dad. I hate this for d7. This is taking some of her innocence and being a kid away. Trying to buyout WAW to maintain some stability for d7.Not deducting any realtor or other fees that would be associated with a sale and WAW still says she's being screwed.
Seems like she is getting more and more irrational. WAW says I should start paying child support but D hasn't even been filed. I told her to just let me know what d7 needs and I'll buy it. sorry for the rambling... I wish I had more strength but I know it will take time.


Me: 48 WAW:40
T:14yr M:12 yr
d8
BD 2/2016
WAW moves out 6/05