Yeah, I agree with you both about not posting my "ring ceremony" on FB. That would have been way beyond stupid. I watched the video again today and it is dumb. I deleted it from my phone. It still feels really weird not having the ring on.
AFAIK, my wife hasn't had an A. If she did have an affair it would save me thousands of $$ because in SC you cannot collect alimony if you commit A, and it would speed up the D in months instead of the 12 months of separation it takes in SC.
I now feel better about offering to pay for her eye exam and contact lenses. I sent the email to keep it official in case any of this comes up in court (if it comes to that). I basically told her what account to use and to let me know how much it would cost so I could transfer money into the account to cover the costs.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day