So, apparently I "went dark" without knowing it. My text to W stating "you know where I stand, and you're always welcome to stay here at the house."... NEVER SENT! I've been having problems with cell network last few days and the text failed HAHA.
So, I went dark, and now I think it's fate, and I might just not send it at all. If she shows up, great, if not, great. Up to her.
