Congratulations Tim! Isn't it marvelous how some of us who are finally getting our own acts together with the help of SSM, PM and this board are having such success! I feel like I'm maybe 85% there now and I can tell you've come a long way too. I still have fear of back-sliding and getting all undif-emo-fusey again. I'm hoping my progress is more like learning how to ride a bike and I'm gaining skills I'll never really forget rather than the beginning of a constant battle against relationship atrophy. Time will tell.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
