So sorry to hear what your going through, you have a great support group here, just keep posting with what your thinking of doing and what has been going on so feedback can be given.
Anyway, can you give more info on issues in marriage, how long married, how long A was going on, etc.
As for the divorce, filing doesn't make you look strong, it's easy to file, detaching, 180's and GAL makes you look strong. If you don't want a D, don't file.
Don't give her money, and don't just decide each time she asks.. Next time she asks make it clear that it was her choice to leave your M, it's not what you want at this time, and your not going to monetarily support that decision. Make sure your daughter has everything she needs, but you can buy what she needs and give that to your WW.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
