I have ZERO problem with her having male friends. I have a problem with THIS one though, given their past. Even if she is telling 100% truth, I know this guy has it out for her. My gut does not lie, I've learned that.
DigIt,
The quote above is from your last thread. I'm just responding to let you know that I understand exactly what you're going through. There are friends and then there are friends; I call them "special" friends and they're not a friend of the marriage.
My MC said, "Look, this is how marriage works; if one spouse doesn't like the other spouse's friend, then the friend has to go."
If you're wife is choosing a friend over you, then you're not the number one dude in her life.
