Not sure EDF. I know I have to let go of any real compassion for my W. Currently, I just cannot think of my wife being destitute, which unfortunately is why I stayed in this marriage longer than I should have before being slapped in the face. I will not offer to pay for anything else unless it's an emergency and my D asks me to do it. My D is on my side as far as "Mom made her bed, and now she has to sleep in it."
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day