What state are you in? Have you responded to your divorce petition yet, started looking for lawyers or done any other D preparation.

I feel like I don't want a D, am not prepared for it, and now have to start dealing with it when I just want my wife back. Meanwhile she seems like she is already two steps ahead of me.


Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs
D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs
BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16