That's a really Super Success Story Corri and congratulations to your H who must be feeling like the Tom cat who got the cream and the sunny spot. It just goes to show what can be done when an LD takes the initiative, studies all the books and becomes a leading and respected expert in her field. There's hope for us all I guess. If only I could get my LDW to take some initiative, read even the back cover of SSM or PM... well anyway. Good luck for the future as I guess you won't be needing us anymore. SD
After recommending the Lou Paget book to you in a previous post, I decided to dig it out of the mothballs and take another look at it myself. I was pretty certain I was going to get some action this weekend, so I decided to learn a new technique.
Girlfriend, you have got to learn the Ode to Bryan handjob technique. I used it on my H last night and his cock reached a quantum level of concrete hardness never before witnessed in our 16 years of marriage. I finished him off with head while maintaining the starting grip at the base of his cock and he said it felt like he was having multiple orgasms.And I didn't even really practice the move and only did it one handed so I would say success is pretty much guaranteed.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Well! This was a MOST interesting weekend. As I posted on my "Beginning" thread, Saturday night was a no-go for LM, so we had agreed to ML on Sunday night. I have to admit, I had my doubts, because DD20 was out VERY late Saturday night, and W had to wait up to go pick her (and her friends) up, so W didn't get to bed until after 3:00 am Sunday. I was thinking that when Sunday night came, she'd be too tired, but my fears proved groundless. We didn't get to bed until 11:00, but that proved no impediment.
As I was waiting in bed for W to get ready and arrive, I have to admit I was somewhat worried about how the session would go. I didn't really have a clear idea of how I would proceed, or what we would do, or how W would react, but I was determined to press on and see what would happen. As W got undressed and got into bed, I was really turned on by the sight of her body. Just before getting into bed, she started to get the bottle of Astroglide, and was going to put some on, but I said "Let's wait and see if we need it." She was less than certain, but she put the bottle down and got into bed. She lay down beside me, and said "Do I need to keep my eyes open?" I said "No... I might, but you don't have to." We began kissing, and I was touching her, and because I could see what was happening, and what I was doing, I was able to "target" my actions to get the response I was looking for. I did, indeed, keep my eyes open pretty much the whole time. At first I was making sweet love to her, kissing her while letting my hands roam strategically, first up and down her back, then stroking her breasts, then her backside (at the same time), and licking her earlobe, and soon I could see she was becoming aroused, and more aroused than usual.
Then I sprang another "surprise" on her - I moved down between her legs, and prepared to go down on her. This is something I have not done in YEARS, because several years ago she basically told me she didn't want me to do that. But this time, I was just going to "go with the flow", and see what happened. What followed was one of the most erotic LM sessions we've had in years! Anyway, she wasn't objecting, so I proceeded. I paid attention to keeping my touches light, and used my hands to caress her brests, tummy and mons gently while I was eating her, and before long, I could tell we weren't going to need the AG! While I was thus engaged, a light thundershower came up, and I almost chuckled at having such great "sound effects" for the occasion.
At one point, I "came up for air", and said "You like? Is good?" and immediately kicked myself mentally, because I could have only one of two possible motivations for that - either validation as a "great lover" (reflected sense of self), or to "rub her nose in it", neither of which was good. Mental note to myself - you're not as differentiated as you think you are... cut it out!
I'm not too sure, but it might have been around that same time, she said she was holding back, because she didn't want to cum too soon. I took that as my cue to move on and enter her. I got up on my knees, spread her legs, and took a moment to tease her thighs a bit and spread her open and enjoy the view. I told her how sexy she was, and how much I enjoyed looking at her. This was certainly the first time in years I've "looked her right between the thighs!" I entered her, but I didn't hold to my usual pattern of "going for broke", instead I experimented with combinations of deep and shallow thrusting. I was doing her! Those who are far enough along in PM will know what I mean. Eventually she asked if she should squeeze herself together more, for my benefit - she was by now VERY slippery, and she was afraid I wasn't getting enough friction. I asked her if she'd cum, and she said yes, and I then asked her if she was uncomfortable, which she wasn't, so I continued.
Eventually it became obvious that I wasn't going to O, there wasn't enough friction, and I was getting tired as well. So we tried a couple of different positions, and although I was getting close, I kept losing it. So I lay down beside her and tried mb8'ing while touching her, but that wasn't working either, so I asked her to straddle me and give me a HJ, which she did, but by then I was too "spent" to cum, and what I think really had happened was I had a bunch of little O's without ejaculating. She was "sorry for me", but I reassured her that I was having great fun, and not to worry.
So that's my great "success story" for this week! I can't wait for next time!!!
It's strange how the best sessions don't always result in an "O". I think it is a sign of tension. You are anxious for her to enjoy the experience so it will be repeated and that causes you to go off the boil. It happens to me too. Once this quality sex becomes the norm you will relax and it will be fantastic Tim. Even your "talking dirty" seems to have gone down well. I am not at that stage yet for sure. SD
Congratulations Tim! Isn't it marvelous how some of us who are finally getting our own acts together with the help of SSM, PM and this board are having such success! I feel like I'm maybe 85% there now and I can tell you've come a long way too. I still have fear of back-sliding and getting all undif-emo-fusey again. I'm hoping my progress is more like learning how to ride a bike and I'm gaining skills I'll never really forget rather than the beginning of a constant battle against relationship atrophy. Time will tell.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Tim, that's excellent. I'm glad it's starting to happen for you. I was starting to wonder when you would get a little payoff and it looks like it's happening. Pretty hot story too.
-Dave (in Dallas and really missing his W right now and wants nothing more than to get in bed with her).
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
