Yup, keeping busy helps. I just have to make sure that I am being busy with the correct things.
This week is a week of triggers with the x's birthday and the upcoming meeting with xfil. Plus kid's continued pulling of hair.
Last year, before the D, I had asked to spend his birthday with kid. He wanted to meet us at a certain time but we couldn't make it that early so he called the whole thing off. Guess toilet paper could only meet him at a certain time. On the morning of his birthday, kid called to greet him happy birthday and he promised to see kid later in the day.
This year, I had kid prepare him a gift and card which she passed to him before his birthday. On the day of his birthday, we didn't call him. He was late in picking kid up. Though he did thank me through text for the present. Which he doesn't bother to do last year.
I am just waiting for the other shoe to drop. For them to tell me that he was going to marry the toilet paper. This is so unlike him that the toilet paper must be in his ear again.
This really svcks. I wonder what else it is that he/ they want from me. And I really do hate him and toilet paper for the anguish kid is going through.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
