It's ok, I have worked out how to get xh2 to do what I want.

Demand he do opposite of what I want, he then huffs and puffs via his L of why he cannot and I get what I want no drama. wink grin

Perhaps this might work for nilla and her wh? He is almost mlc, and will refuse just to be difficult?

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26