The best advice I had was treat it as business only.
I had a flurry of L stuff today, xh2 has a history of dumping stuff at my place unannouced so we had to re demand arrangement from any human to arrange delivery. As xh2 has refused he won't text or phone me. Guess the ow has his man jewels in her handbag and he's not allowed them!
Guess she knows un classey he is, but do what works.
I don't want him at my home tick I asked the lawyer to demand he deliver in person. He refused.
I don't want him to phone in person, just cannot bothered with listening to another word salad of how I deserved this so I demanded he either text or phone tick he refused
I demanded he deliver stuff this week, which would have been a pia, and suprise he refused and said next week. Tick.
Work out how to drive things in the direction your heading even if you r, selttlement is about you standing up and securing your share. It's not an obstacle, like my xh2 says.
It he truely wanted to nothing would stop him.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26